The Invisible Labor Audit
Who's carrying the load nobody sees?
A printable audit for couples and housemates: list the visible and invisible tasks, score them, then talk through a fairer split.
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Is this for you?
Is this for you?
- One of you remembers the appointments, the refills and the birthdays.
- "Just ask me" still leaves someone doing the noticing.
- Conversations about chores end in a scoreboard.
- You'd like to see the whole picture before deciding what to change.
A look inside
What it helps you do
Start with how it feels
Each of you rates a few statements on your own. There are no wrong answers.
How it feels right now
List every task
Prompts by category, from food and kids to paperwork and pets, so nothing gets missed.
Step 2: list the tasks
See the picture together
A load chart shows how the work splits once everything is scored.
Step 4: load chart
Ready when you are
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Hand off a task fully
Ownership cards cover noticing, planning, doing and following up, not just doing.
Task ownership cards
Words for the conversation
Kind, simple scripts, plus team words to swap in for blame words.
Talk scripts
Re-check once a month
A quick re-score of your top tasks to see how the picture changes.
Monthly re-audit tracker
What's inside
What's inside
- Start Here: Where You Are Now
- The Core Idea, in Plain Words
- Your 5-Step Audit
- Tools and Templates
- When It Gets Hard
- Keep It Going
- Notes and Reflection
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Questions about The Invisible Labor Audit
What format is it?
PDF, instant download you download right after checkout. Nothing ships.
Which devices can I use?
Any phone, tablet or computer that opens PDFs. On a tablet you can fill pages in with a PDF annotation app.
Can I print it?
Yes. The pages are sized for standard letter paper and print fine at home.
How do I get it after buying?
You'll see a download link on the order confirmation page and in your confirmation email.
What if it isn't right for me?
We have a 7-day refund policy. Email support@guidestackhq.com within 7 days of purchase and we'll help.
Who is it for?
Couples and housemates who share a home and want to see who handles what.
Can I do it on my own first?
Yes. One partner can start the task list, but the scoring and the talk work best together.
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This guide is a self-guided organizing tool. It is not therapy, counseling or relationship advice.